Today’s show was about a husband and wife that decided to explore a threesome. The husband would like to continue seeing other people and the wife is complete. In her letter, she asks how do I get him to understand my feelings.
The challenge is that the husband made it clear prior to the threesome that he wanted to sleep with other people. So, now that he’s experienced it he may choose not to listen to anything that may thwart his effort to explore other sexual partners. We shared a lot on the show (without the wife’s input)but the simplest offering is for the wife to sit with what is she thinking and feeling? And what does she really want him to know? There certainly is an opportunity for her to look at where she may have denied her own feelings in the past as well as what she envisions for the future. This could be a divine opportunity for them to navigate a new course or to decide that this is where they part ways.
Sometimes for the sake of being in a relationship, being loved, experiencing romance we allow things to occur that don’t honor us and when we can no longer bare it then we may come face-to-face with a truth we’ve attempted to deny, run from, or simply couldn’t see. The wife may discover that the feelings she wants the husband to honor may be the very feelings she has dishonored! Close examination and scrutiny of the truth may reveal that we ask people to give to us the very thing(s) what we don’t give to ourselves. That awareness is a blessing even if it doesn’t feel good!
Tune in to the Russ Parr Morning Show Tuesday’s 7:50am EST when we Get Into It With Me-Pruitt😁🙏🏾
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